Daniel Tocchini shows how some basic changes in marital conversationthe way couples talk to themselves and each othercan literally transform relationships. Veteran marriage coach Daniel L. Tocchini doesnt want to improve marriages. He wants to transform them. Drawing on personal experience and stories from couples he has coached, he offers practical guidance to move couples beyond communication tricks and gimmicks to help them truly understand "Us" for the first timetalking honestly, listening generously, tackling tricky issues, breaking out of ruts, and abandoning self-centered consumer thinking. Innovative, insightful, and thoroughly biblical, Tocchinis approach has helped thousands in his popular seminars. Whether a marriage is in deep trouble or just coasting along, it's time for Christian couples to read the User's Guide that God intended.